1. Bali is located a hopelessly short eight degrees from the equator. For fair skinned Westerners like myself there is no recourse; there aren’t enough hours in the day to reapply sunscreen. After two days of riding on the back of a motorbike, I got a particularly sexy sunburn that looked like red thigh high stockings.
2. As you stroll down the streets of Kuta, the island’s answer to Bourbon Street, children will chase you down flashing fists full of leather bracelets begging you to buy just one. You will hope that this isn’t the beginning of a career marked by other milestones like prostitution, drug dealing or human trafficking. There is nothing impish about a child beggar, even the chubby ones, especially the ones still latched to their mother’s breast. Read More
It’s finally here. Graduation is at hand. Here it comes, the first day of the rest of your life. It’s the season that we invite alumni-of-note and celebrities-of-a-certain-age to deliver commencement addresses to the hungover soon-to-be graduates to commemorate the last milestone before transitioning from late adolescence into full-blown adulthood because nothing’s going to kick start the future like advice from a really rich person who just received an honorary degree in contemporary letters and literature.
Despite my cynicism, I love this season. Read More
I have left home and, so I have left Texas.
The boxes I packed in Austin have now been unpacked in our new home almost 1,700 miles away in downtown San Jose, California. I’ve spent three weeks holding my breath so as to hold back everything that I’d spent protecting the months, days, and minutes before we locked the moving truck and drove ourselves West. Read More
I first started listening to the WTF Podcast during late summer of 2013. If I let my mind wander back to that place, I find myself living in a shitty apartment without windows I couldn’t afford on my part-time funnel cake food trailer operator salary. Read More
In the sixth grade a boy named Alex with a lesbian bootlegger’s haircut handed me a store-bought Valentine on which he wrote, “I’m only giving you this Valentine because we have to give them to everyone.” No envelope included, not stuck together with a shiny sticker, not even a single piece of cinnamon flavored candy attached. He strolled away in his JNCOs and navy blue basketball jersey not caring that he’d hurt my feelings. Later that year someone kicked him in the balls during hand bell choir practice and he passed out on the carpet in front of the altar inside the church. Afterward the girls were lectured on the dangers of kicking boys in the balls. I didn’t feel sorry for him at all. Rumor has he got a girl pregnant during his freshman year in high school. Read More
Tonight, in a living room in the Hollywood Hills, tucked between the Santa Monica Mountains, in a ranch style home on Mount Lee, a current of erotic energy moves past the Hollywood sign, carrying with it a buzz not unlike that of the Tesla Coil at the Griffith Observatory. I watch as an unclothed tangle of men’s and women’s bodies arc like the coil’s sparks in front of me on imported Moroccan rugs. Read More
A few years ago Bill Murray crashed a random bachelor party and gave the following advice to the husband-to-be and his merry band of bachelors. On choosing “the one” he offered, “If you have someone that you think is the one…take that person and buy a plane ticket for the two of you to travel all around the world, and go to places that are hard to go to and hard to get out of. And if when you land at JFK and you’re still in love with that person, get married at the airport.” Read More
Every year you hear people who say they wish we could capture that “Christmas feeling” all year round. I am not one of those people. Like a newborn refusing to latch to her mother’s breast, so is my relationship with ye olde Yuletide.
Now, I’m no Scrooge. The truth is I want to be swept by the spirit, tangled in tinsel, and a’glow with more inner light than a Christmas tree in a bay window. Read More
I met Jeff three years ago at the bar where he likes to work and where I liked to drink. I was new to my hometown having returned only to find the city I grew up in changed beyond my recognition. I’d left the beginning of a promising career in advertising in Dallas and found myself working in a fried food trailer across the street from the bar where Jeff works. That summer depression smelled like funnel cake and shots of whiskey. Read More